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		<title>By: Help Please</title>
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		<dc:creator>Help Please</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 07 Sep 2010 06:12:01 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>This has been done to me for 8 years by various people. I also have had things left outside my door. My son has been terrorized by this someone please contact me at LikeMinds@hotmail.com</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This has been done to me for 8 years by various people. I also have had things left outside my door. My son has been terrorized by this someone please contact me at <a href="mailto:LikeMinds@hotmail.com">LikeMinds@hotmail.com</a></p>
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		<title>By: admin</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 01 Jun 2010 23:41:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thanks for checking in Lin, yes I am supposed to have a day in court first week of July, but honestly... I am so over it &amp; wish it would all go away, I am really too busy to deal with this.  Of course since everyone &quot;knows&quot; about what happened I can&#039;t just shrug it off the way I want to... Plus, I have to say, I am a bit worried about what will happen NEXT year when you-know-who comes to town for the Holidays, so I kind of have to go through with this, right?  At least for an order of protection.
I will see you next week?  Best, N</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thanks for checking in Lin, yes I am supposed to have a day in court first week of July, but honestly&#8230; I am so over it &#038; wish it would all go away, I am really too busy to deal with this.  Of course since everyone &#8220;knows&#8221; about what happened I can&#8217;t just shrug it off the way I want to&#8230; Plus, I have to say, I am a bit worried about what will happen NEXT year when you-know-who comes to town for the Holidays, so I kind of have to go through with this, right?  At least for an order of protection.<br />
I will see you next week?  Best, N</p>
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		<title>By: reverse phone number lookup</title>
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		<dc:creator>reverse phone number lookup</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 15 Apr 2010 21:35:31 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>This is a really good read for me. Must admit that you are one of the best bloggers I ever saw. Thanks for posting this informative article.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This is a really good read for me. Must admit that you are one of the best bloggers I ever saw. Thanks for posting this informative article.</p>
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		<title>By: Debbie Duhane</title>
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		<dc:creator>Debbie Duhane</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 13 Apr 2010 21:35:16 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>You know I searched Google keyword &quot;stalker blocked number&quot; and this post came up third  You&#039;re a celebrity among stalkers muahahahaa even more funny this link came up #7 too funny Don&#039;t be stalker-y

http://www.guyspeak.com/answers/he-blocked-my-number-is-there-a-chance-to-get-back-together/

I am a seo gal the topic is hot and gl to you</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>You know I searched Google keyword &#8220;stalker blocked number&#8221; and this post came up third  You&#8217;re a celebrity among stalkers muahahahaa even more funny this link came up #7 too funny Don&#8217;t be stalker-y</p>
<p><a href="http://www.guyspeak.com/answers/he-blocked-my-number-is-there-a-chance-to-get-back-together/" rel="nofollow">http://www.guyspeak.com/answers/he-blocked-my-number-is-there-a-chance-to-get-back-together/</a></p>
<p>I am a seo gal the topic is hot and gl to you</p>
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		<title>By: Nico</title>
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		<dc:creator>Nico</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 07 Apr 2010 20:05:53 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hello &quot;Nater&quot;,  Are you stalking me too ;-) How is life at the Office treating you???

I am on the road and can&#039;t get into this too deeply at this very moment, what YOU are experiencing falls under the same umbrella as &quot;harassing phone calls&quot;and you have clear threats or so you say, what kind of threats?  Once a threat is made, be it physical or defamation of character, (i.e. someone is calling you names in an effort to embarrass you or making accusations that are untrue, etc., etc.) you have a very strong case on your side, regardless of whether they are being sent directly to you, or worse yet, to your friends &amp; colleagues.

The modes of communication are both regulated by the FCC / The Federal Government and aggravated harassment is a crime -  Land Phone, Cell phone and Text Message (a.k.a. SMS/MMS) - doesn&#039;t matter which or all of the above.

Why don&#039;t you drop me a line after I return to NYC - once again, as I remind all those who communicate with me - Don&#039;t block your number &amp; call me from a number where I can call you back based on the Caller ID.

I think there may be some defamation of character in your case, let&#039;s discuss and as painful as it may be, forward the nasty text messages to YOUR phone from your friends phones and back everything up - that is what I had to do - take pictures, talk to your carrier and see what they can do to help you back up!

Mind you, a case like this can take a VERY long time to resolve! Up to 2 years!~  And so, even if you get them to stop, you are still living (and re-living) it and dealing with the past when everyone should be moving on.  I have done a lot of research on the matter.

In the mean time, be clear and direct - tell the person to cease and desist, tell them they are committing a crime and that you will seek legal action.  It is very cowardly for someone to take their anger at you out on other people by annoying them w unwanted texting, sounds like some &quot;mental damage&quot; so watch your back and check your tub for boiled bunnies before you hop in (Easter humor?).

Take care and hope you _do_ follow up with me.

It boggles my mind how rampant this insanity is, seriously... I get like 200 hits a day from people Searching online for ways to solve their stalker, psycho caller/texter issues - You&#039;re an SEO guy so you will appreciate that I see searches for &quot;anonymous flowers&quot; and &quot;stalker shrines&quot; and &quot;how to catch your stalker&quot; x20 per day!!   I think we have some keywords to position for a whole new website!!

All the best,
Nico</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hello &#8220;Nater&#8221;,  Are you stalking me too <img src='http://www.nicomclane.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';-)' class='wp-smiley' />  How is life at the Office treating you???</p>
<p>I am on the road and can&#8217;t get into this too deeply at this very moment, what YOU are experiencing falls under the same umbrella as &#8220;harassing phone calls&#8221;and you have clear threats or so you say, what kind of threats?  Once a threat is made, be it physical or defamation of character, (i.e. someone is calling you names in an effort to embarrass you or making accusations that are untrue, etc., etc.) you have a very strong case on your side, regardless of whether they are being sent directly to you, or worse yet, to your friends &amp; colleagues.</p>
<p>The modes of communication are both regulated by the FCC / The Federal Government and aggravated harassment is a crime &#8211;  Land Phone, Cell phone and Text Message (a.k.a. SMS/MMS) &#8211; doesn&#8217;t matter which or all of the above.</p>
<p>Why don&#8217;t you drop me a line after I return to NYC &#8211; once again, as I remind all those who communicate with me &#8211; Don&#8217;t block your number &amp; call me from a number where I can call you back based on the Caller ID.</p>
<p>I think there may be some defamation of character in your case, let&#8217;s discuss and as painful as it may be, forward the nasty text messages to YOUR phone from your friends phones and back everything up &#8211; that is what I had to do &#8211; take pictures, talk to your carrier and see what they can do to help you back up!</p>
<p>Mind you, a case like this can take a VERY long time to resolve! Up to 2 years!~  And so, even if you get them to stop, you are still living (and re-living) it and dealing with the past when everyone should be moving on.  I have done a lot of research on the matter.</p>
<p>In the mean time, be clear and direct &#8211; tell the person to cease and desist, tell them they are committing a crime and that you will seek legal action.  It is very cowardly for someone to take their anger at you out on other people by annoying them w unwanted texting, sounds like some &#8220;mental damage&#8221; so watch your back and check your tub for boiled bunnies before you hop in (Easter humor?).</p>
<p>Take care and hope you _do_ follow up with me.</p>
<p>It boggles my mind how rampant this insanity is, seriously&#8230; I get like 200 hits a day from people Searching online for ways to solve their stalker, psycho caller/texter issues &#8211; You&#8217;re an SEO guy so you will appreciate that I see searches for &#8220;anonymous flowers&#8221; and &#8220;stalker shrines&#8221; and &#8220;how to catch your stalker&#8221; x20 per day!!   I think we have some keywords to position for a whole new website!!</p>
<p>All the best,<br />
Nico</p>
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		<title>By: Nater</title>
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		<dc:creator>Nater</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 06 Apr 2010 17:50:12 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>What if someone is texting threats and insults about me to my friends, who are all telling me about it,but not sending it directly to me?  is that the same as phone call harrassing?  It is really getting out of hand at this point and I am not sure what to do, it&#039;s embarrassing. I found this but not my state, http://cyb3rcrim3.blogspot.com/2008/06/harassing-or-threatening-text-messages.html

thanks lady!  Good luck with your deal.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>What if someone is texting threats and insults about me to my friends, who are all telling me about it,but not sending it directly to me?  is that the same as phone call harrassing?  It is really getting out of hand at this point and I am not sure what to do, it&#8217;s embarrassing. I found this but not my state, <a href="http://cyb3rcrim3.blogspot.com/2008/06/harassing-or-threatening-text-messages.html" rel="nofollow">http://cyb3rcrim3.blogspot.com/2008/06/harassing-or-threatening-text-messages.html</a></p>
<p>thanks lady!  Good luck with your deal.</p>
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		<title>By: Nico</title>
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		<dc:creator>Nico</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 27 Mar 2010 15:37:08 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Silly Lin!  email is nicoontheweb@aol.com  I thought you were more tech savvy than that! Yeah, T-Mobile sucks, I used to be with them but I moved to SPRINT, it is &#039;ok&#039;, not great but def&#039; better than TMobile,Tmo shares a lot of the same cell towers as AT&amp;T in NYC so you wind up getting kicked off because of all those iPhone addicts!

I wound up staying in town - Had an emergency webcast yesterday, I will not be around for a few days.... unless something else pops up!  And thanks for the kind words &amp; support, but things are really going extremely well with me, getting back in to the swing of things&amp; recuperating from that entire fiasco from last year... But, that is so 2009 and 2010 is the year we will both ROCK!  Big time.... nothing can bring us down now :-)
Write me at my email or call me silly!  Who is going to do my make up when we start shooting the show again???
L8r g8r!
N</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Silly Lin!  email is <a href="mailto:nicoontheweb@aol.com">nicoontheweb@aol.com</a>  I thought you were more tech savvy than that! Yeah, T-Mobile sucks, I used to be with them but I moved to SPRINT, it is &#8216;ok&#8217;, not great but def&#8217; better than TMobile,Tmo shares a lot of the same cell towers as AT&amp;T in NYC so you wind up getting kicked off because of all those iPhone addicts!</p>
<p>I wound up staying in town &#8211; Had an emergency webcast yesterday, I will not be around for a few days&#8230;. unless something else pops up!  And thanks for the kind words &amp; support, but things are really going extremely well with me, getting back in to the swing of things&amp; recuperating from that entire fiasco from last year&#8230; But, that is so 2009 and 2010 is the year we will both ROCK!  Big time&#8230;. nothing can bring us down now <img src='http://www.nicomclane.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':-)' class='wp-smiley' /><br />
Write me at my email or call me silly!  Who is going to do my make up when we start shooting the show again???<br />
L8r g8r!<br />
N</p>
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		<title>By: Nico</title>
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		<dc:creator>Nico</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 22 Mar 2010 13:16:56 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi L!  The number I have for you keeps going directly to voicemail, I left a message but wanted to touch base.  You know, you &quot;can&quot; email me directly :-)

Sorry I missed you last week, I was in D.C.at a gig - I think I may be in town until this Weds. and then possibly back on the road until next Tuesday, so maybe we can grab a cup o&#039; joe then?
I hope things are going better for you, sounds like work is going well, at least you are busy  - glad you got out of that &quot;situation&quot;. As for me, yeah... He basically stole from me - that&#039;s the way I see it.  He still says that he &#039;loves&#039; me and that we are &quot;family&quot; haha, what ever that means.  Seriously, he and all those folks over there are like grifters!  Right?  I don&#039;t want to burn any bridges though, you never know.  So, I am trying to just keep it peaceful and at least giving the impression that everything is ok between all of us.

Talk soon, keep the faith and take care of you!
Best,
Nico</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi L!  The number I have for you keeps going directly to voicemail, I left a message but wanted to touch base.  You know, you &#8220;can&#8221; email me directly <img src='http://www.nicomclane.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':-)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>Sorry I missed you last week, I was in D.C.at a gig &#8211; I think I may be in town until this Weds. and then possibly back on the road until next Tuesday, so maybe we can grab a cup o&#8217; joe then?<br />
I hope things are going better for you, sounds like work is going well, at least you are busy  &#8211; glad you got out of that &#8220;situation&#8221;. As for me, yeah&#8230; He basically stole from me &#8211; that&#8217;s the way I see it.  He still says that he &#8216;loves&#8217; me and that we are &#8220;family&#8221; haha, what ever that means.  Seriously, he and all those folks over there are like grifters!  Right?  I don&#8217;t want to burn any bridges though, you never know.  So, I am trying to just keep it peaceful and at least giving the impression that everything is ok between all of us.</p>
<p>Talk soon, keep the faith and take care of you!<br />
Best,<br />
Nico</p>
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		<title>By: Nico</title>
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		<dc:creator>Nico</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 28 Feb 2010 21:44:42 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi, I know how scary that can be!!   Who is your mobile carrier and what type of cell phone do you have?  Email me direct, I do not want any potential stalkers to know what I have learned :-)  Let&#039;s see if I can&#039;t help you out here!
Best,
Nico</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi, I know how scary that can be!!   Who is your mobile carrier and what type of cell phone do you have?  Email me direct, I do not want any potential stalkers to know what I have learned <img src='http://www.nicomclane.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':-)' class='wp-smiley' />   Let&#8217;s see if I can&#8217;t help you out here!<br />
Best,<br />
Nico</p>
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		<title>By: Cali</title>
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		<dc:creator>Cali</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 28 Feb 2010 21:31:50 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Dear Nico...

I googled some words and your article came up. An unfortunate yet interesting story you had going on. I seem to be having a problem myself. I have a person who has been calling my &quot;Cell&quot; phone, not home phone from a Restricted # the last 3 weeks EVERYDAY! This person calls me early in the morning,7am everyday...as if they have a routine...and they punch dials...to let me know they are there, and at night. They are breathing..it sounds like a man. I really dont know who it is at this point..I dont have enemies. Just a young girl living my life. What APP traces Restricted Numbers from Cell Phones?? This person is not calling my house, so I can not use that *57 thing you were talking about?? Thank you for sharing your story

Sincerely, Cali</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Dear Nico&#8230;</p>
<p>I googled some words and your article came up. An unfortunate yet interesting story you had going on. I seem to be having a problem myself. I have a person who has been calling my &#8220;Cell&#8221; phone, not home phone from a Restricted # the last 3 weeks EVERYDAY! This person calls me early in the morning,7am everyday&#8230;as if they have a routine&#8230;and they punch dials&#8230;to let me know they are there, and at night. They are breathing..it sounds like a man. I really dont know who it is at this point..I dont have enemies. Just a young girl living my life. What APP traces Restricted Numbers from Cell Phones?? This person is not calling my house, so I can not use that *57 thing you were talking about?? Thank you for sharing your story</p>
<p>Sincerely, Cali</p>
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